It’s been a while since I last posted—since January 9th, to be exact. Life took an unexpected and incredibly difficult turn, and I’ve needed time and space to navigate through it.

Earlier this year, I received the heartbreaking news that my mother’s health had declined beyond recovery. She entered home hospice care, and not long after, she passed away—on the same day as a dear friend’s birthday. That moment marked the beginning of an emotional journey that involved not only deep sorrow but also the strength of community and family. My sister and I took on the responsibility of planning her funeral and ensuring she could be laid to rest in her home country—a final wish that meant everything to us.

We couldn’t have done it alone. The unwavering support from both our father’s and our mother’s families helped us navigate the many challenges of getting her home and honoring her properly. I’m also deeply grateful for the friends and coworkers who stood by me throughout this difficult time, and especially for my sister, who was by my side during our mother’s final moments.

Losing both of my parents—my father nearly five years ago and my mother just shy of her 63rd birthday—has been the hardest experience of my life. Despite the pain, I continue to find strength each day. I’m focused on completing the last three courses I need to graduate in May, keeping up with work, and maintaining my home—even on days when the weight of loss feels overwhelming.

In the midst of grief, I’ve learned how precious every moment is. I hope that everyone who reads this takes the time to create beautiful memories with the ones they love. Life is fleeting, and what we truly have to leave behind are those memories. Hug your loved ones every day if possible, call them when you can, or even send an email if that’s the best way to keep in touch.

These past few months have been a journey of loss, love, and resilience. I carry my parents with me in everything I do, and I know they would want me to continue moving forward. I am truly blessed—for the memories, for the support, and for the strength to keep going.